What is Fat Shaming? Are You a Shamer?

What Is Fat Shaming - Eating Disorder Therapy - Fort Lauderdale

“Imagine a world where people are supported in living happy, healthy lives, free of judgment about the size of their bodies…this is the mission of BEDA’s Weight Stigma Awareness Week.”

Weightism may be the last socially acceptable prejudice in our culture—occurring more frequently than gender, sexuality, age or religious discrimination (Puhl, Andreyeva, & Brownell, 2008). Not convinced? Click herehere, here, and here to read examples of disturbing fat-shaming incidents. Click here to view photographer, Haley Morris-Cafiero, brilliant photos in which she busts shamers being judgey wudgey.

Haley Morris-Cafiero's Wait-Watchers Series

Haley Morris-Cafiero’s Wait-Watchers Series

What is fat shaming?

Fat shaming is an act of bullying, singling out, discriminating, or making fun of a fat person. The shaming may be performed under the guise of helping the person who is overweight/obese realize they need to lose weight or they will die, become ill, and/or never succeed in life or relationships. Fat shaming is an individual bias against people who are considered unattractive, stupid, lazy or lacking self-control.

Fat-Shaming doesn’t work

We now have scientific proof that fat-shaming doesn’t lead to weight loss. A study led by psychologist Angelina Sutin at the Florida State University College of Medicine found that overweight individuals who experienced weight discrimination were over two times more likely to become obese by the end of her study, four years later. Participants who were already obese were three times more likely to remain obese by the end of the study.

If fat-shaming doesn’t work, why do so many still discriminate?

Weight discrimination and stigma continue to exist, at least in part, due to the belief that this type of shaming has an admirable purpose—to motivate people to lose weight. Fat shaming persists quite simply because we aren’t doing enough to fight it. We’ve become numb to the nonsense—the manifestation of ignorance and hate.

Are you a fat-shaming bully? Signs you are part of the problem:

  • Feels superior in comparison to overweight or obese people
  • Makes jokes about fat people seen in public or in the media
  • Comments on another’s body
  • Teases friends/family about their weight in an attempt to be “funny”
  • Allows for family members to make fun of fat people
  • Views thinness as an attribute of success, happiness, or self-control
  • Critical and judgmental of others. Assumes weight is a lifestyle choice
  • Makes assumptions of personal character/morality based on appearance/size
  • Views diets as a quick fix and easy solution to weight issues (research shows diets=weight gain)
  • Looks down on others who do not adhere to “clean eating”

Weight is not a behavior and obesity in and of itself isn’t a disease. Despite the AMA’s decision to classify obesity as a disease, there are numerous individuals who are obese with a perfect bill of physical health. In fact, research shows that individuals 75 pounds overweight hold a longer lifespan than individuals 5 pounds underweight. Scare tactics, shaming or discrimination aren’t acceptable. Period.

A person’s health simply cannot be determined by appearance alone. If bonafide medical interventions indicate true health concerns then interventions should focus on modifiable actions. Such interventions could include learning how to build healthy meals with gentle nutritional guidelines (not rigid diet rules), exploring how to add purposeful and joyful movement of the body, self-esteem building, stress management, and healthy self-expression. Be a part of the solution by ditching knee-jerk conclusions and shaming behaviors.

“Problems cannot be solved by the same level of thinking that created them.” – Albert Einstein


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